Month: June 2025

What Not to Say When Someone Has Cancer (or Any Other Awful Diagnosis)…and What To Say Instead

This morning I went in for my annual mammogram. You know, the appointment where you’re already feeling vulnerable because you’re topless, squished, and making awkward small talk with a stranger. The tech was nice – a little chatty, but nice. We got to talking about walking, and when she mentioned a local pond she likes […]

Mike’s First Three Days of Radiation and Chemo

So far, we’re relieved to say that Mike’s symptoms have been relatively mild. He’s mostly just very tired—understandably so—and has had some mild nausea, but the anti-nausea meds are helping quite a bit. We know there may be tougher days ahead, but for now, we’re grateful for a gentle start. We’ve been doing our best […]