“How are you doing?” A seemingly innocuous question. At a minimum, it’s a conversation starter. It usually follows the obligatory “hello,” “hi,” or “hey.” But lately, it feels like a landmine. Do people want me to just say, “I’m okay,” so they can move along with their day, unbothered, with no emotional investment? Or are […]
Month: June 2025
“In All Things Give Thanks”
One full week of treatment down — five more to go. So far, Mike is tolerating it incredibly well, with only mild symptoms. We know it’s still early, but we’re calling that a win. The weather is warming up, but not so much that I can’t enjoy a gentle stroll around the hospital while he’s […]
What Not to Say When Someone Has Cancer (or Any Other Awful Diagnosis)…and What To Say Instead
This morning I went in for my annual mammogram. You know, the appointment where you’re already feeling vulnerable because you’re topless, squished, and making awkward small talk with a stranger. The tech was nice – a little chatty, but nice. We got to talking about walking, and when she mentioned a local pond she likes […]
Mike’s First Three Days of Radiation and Chemo
So far, we’re relieved to say that Mike’s symptoms have been relatively mild. He’s mostly just very tired—understandably so—and has had some mild nausea, but the anti-nausea meds are helping quite a bit. We know there may be tougher days ahead, but for now, we’re grateful for a gentle start. We’ve been doing our best […]