One full week of treatment down — five more to go. So far, Mike is tolerating it incredibly well, with only mild symptoms. We know it’s still early, but we’re calling that a win.
The weather is warming up, but not so much that I can’t enjoy a gentle stroll around the hospital while he’s getting radiation. Many of you know about my daily gratitude practice, and one day this week, while walking through the hospital’s serenity garden, I came across this stone:
It reminded me to slow down. To notice the quiet beauty all around us. Even in the hardest season of our lives, there’s still so much to be grateful for — if we just stop and look.
Like our hummingbirds. They’ve been putting on a show lately, and I love it. I’m thankful for the time off work, the chance to just be here, fully present with Mike in this chapter.
No, we can’t do much right now — but we’re soaking up every little thing we can do:
- Pedicures at the salon
- Cooking competition shows on the Food Network
- Reading our books
- Sipping non-alcoholic beers in the garage
(You better believe I found a way for my man to still enjoy his beer on chemo!) - Tossing the ball for PITA — from the shade, of course
- Walks by the pond when Mike’s up for it
- Yoga, tai chi, herbal tea, and all the self-care we can fit in
These small, gentle routines? They’re keeping us grounded. And they’re something to be deeply thankful for.
The most precious thing we’ve had to celebrate this week? Mike’s birthday. No big trips or fancy dinners this year — just a cozy meal and quality time with our parents and Cole. But this birthday felt extra special. It’s one more beautiful reminder of how fragile and sacred this one life really is.
No more complaining about getting older — we’re celebrating every single year we get. Every. Damn. One.
So yeah — this season is hard. Cancer sucks. But we’re getting through it the best way we know how: together. And we truly couldn’t do it without the massive support system we have in all of you — our incredible friends, family, and coworkers.
We count our blessings for you every single day. 😘
